人人都有難念的經
人人都有難念的經
What is the secret ingredient of tough people that enables them to succeed? Why do they survive the tough times when others are overcome by them? Why do they win when others lose? Why do they soar when others sink?
堅韌不撥的人成功的秘訣是什麽？他們為什麽能挺過艱難的時刻，而其他人卻被困難所壓倒？為什麽成功的是他們，而失敗的是其他人？為什麽他們一飛衝天，而其他人都深陷泥沼？
The answer is very simple. It's all in how they perceive their problems. Yes, every living person has problems. A problem-free life is an illusion -a mirage in the desert. Accept that fact.
答案很簡單，全看他們是如何看待自己麵臨的難題。不錯，人人有本難念的經。沒有難題困擾的人生隻能是一個幻想，是沙漠中的海市蜃樓。還是接受這個事實吧。
Every mountain has a peak. Every valley has its low point. Life has its ups and downs, its peaks and its valleys. No one is up all the time, nor are they down all the time. Problems do end. They are all resolved in time.
每一座山都有巔峰，每一個峽穀都有深底。人生也有興衰起伏，不會有人一生都時乖命蹇。難題總有了結的一天。隨著時間的推移，一切難題都會迎刃而解。
You may not be able to control the times, but you can compose your response. You can turn your pain into profanity -or into poetry. The choice is up to you. You may not have chosen your tough time, but you can choose how you will react to it.
你也許不能控製時勢，可是你能夠冷靜應對。你既可以把痛苦轉換為怨天尤人的詛咒，也可以賦予之以詩意，這全在於你自己的選擇。時運不濟的你或許無從選擇，但是你可以選擇應對的方略。譬如，遭遇一次嚴重的經濟挫折，究竟怎麽做才稱得上積極應對呢？放棄而後潛逃？借酒澆愁？吸毒麻醉？抑或自殺？這樣的逃避是積極應對嗎？當然不是！這樣一些消極的反應似乎暫時解決了迫在眉睫的難題，但事實上隻會招致更棘手的難題。
The positive solution to a problem may require courage to initiate it. When you control your reaction to the seemingly uncontrollable problem of life, then in fact you do control the problem's effect on you. Your reaction to the problem is the last word! That's the bottom line. What will you let this problem do to you? It can make you tender or tough. It can make you better or bitter. It all depends on you.
積極的應對隻能是鼓起勇氣著手解決。對於人生中看似無法控製的難題，當你能夠控製自己的應對，那麽你就事實上控製了難題對你的影響。你對難題的應對是至關重要的、最根本的。難題能對你產生什麽樣的影響呢？它可以使你脆弱，也可以使你堅強；它可以使你升華，也可以使你痛苦。全在於你自己。
In the final analysis, the tough people who survive the tough times do so because they've chosen to react positively to their predicament. Tough times never last, but tough people do. Tough people stick it out. History teaches us that every problem has a lifespan.
歸根結底，堅韌的人之所以能挺過艱難的歲月，是因為他們選擇積極地去應對困境。艱難的歲月不會沒完沒了，堅韌的人會始終不懈，堅持到底。曆史告訴我們，每一個難題都有始有終，任何難題都不會永遠存在。
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